I am drowning and don’t want to let this hurt ruin us. But this 64-year-old man had a dildo lodged inside of him for six months before it was removed by doctors. But she has talked to him a few times in secret, and once read a text saying “I can’t get you out of my head.” I now feel like the woman I live to serve and love will never crave me or enjoy me more than her secret abusive lover. Sex toys are obviously the most common objects to get stuck. I know it’s not her fault, and she was abused. I can’t seem to move past that. They were kids when this started-he was a young teenager, and she was even younger. We’ve decided to be radically honest with each other, but unfortunately, that means I know everything we do in bed came from him: threesomes, filming, every dirty thing that my wife amazed me with was all taught by her older brother. She ran from home and left him right before she arrived in my state. My wife bravely has confided in me she was sexually active with her older brother for 20 years (give or take). It’s anonymous!Įvery week, the crew responds to a bonus question in chat form.
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